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47, Male

Looking for Men, Groups between 24 & 45 for A relationship, Casual encounters, Something discreet, Friendship

looking for something meaningful

What to say...? I'm a pretty normal guy...depending on what you consider normal to be. Only been out about 8 years. Previously married. Everyone still assumes I'm straight but that's fine.

I'm pretty straight forward & happy to talk to almost anyone. Passionate about lot's of, food, intelligence, human-rights, social justice, travel, family, politics, friends, love, sex - keen to catch up over a game of tennis, a movie, a drink & open to other suggestions ;-),

I do personal training 3 days/week but wouldn't mind hooking up with someone who will lift weights with me. Play beach volley and tennis and will try most things except perhaps sky-diving...still can't get my head around that one.

I lived, worked and studied in Japan for about 8 years. Love travelling around Japan. Love its people, culture, food and language. I speak Japanese and hopefully in the not-too-distant future plan to own property there so I have a base for my Japan domestic trips. 日本語を話すことができます.

Guess I'm here for some casual fun in the short-term but keen to locate Mr Right-For-Me and establish something meaningful! Love to all!

Ideal partner

masculine, honest, intelligent, fun, funny, adventurous, fit both physically and emotionally


Gender: Male  
Age 47  
Status Single  
Sexual Preference Gay  
Versatility Versatile  


Height 188 cm (6'2'')  
Weight 91 kg  
Body Type Average  
Eyes Brown  
Hair Black  
Circumcised Yes  


Lifestyle Adventurous  
Drinking Only rarely  
Smoking Only occasionally  
Diet I'll eat anything  
Practice Safe Sex Always  


Ethnic Background White / Caucasian  
Languages English, Italian  
Personality Optimist / Easy going  
Star Sign Sagittarius  
Religion No religion  
Religious Views Athiest or agnostic  
Political Attitude Politically aware  

Children & Pets

Have Children Yes, but don't live with me  
Want Children Maybe  
Have Pets Have a pet(s)  

Work & Education

Education Bachelor degree  
Industry Real Estate & Property  


1 on 1 sex
Anal sex - Giving
Anal sex - Receiving
Kinky Fetishes
Oral Sex - Giving
Oral Sex - Receiving
Toys (Vibrators / Strapons etc)