What are winks and how do I use them?

Winks are a way to express your interest or flirt with a member on the site. If you are a Trial Member you can send winks to members who you wish to contact without having to upgrade your membership. The member who receives your wink can reply back with one of the standard replies to the wink to let you know if they are interested. If both of you are Trial Members then you can decide if one of you wishes to upgrade their membership to start communicating.